Private 1:1 Coaching Containers
You've built the life.
So why do you keep burning it down?
You're successful by every measure that matters to the outside world. And yet there's a pattern — one that keeps showing up, costing you, and that no amount of achievement has fixed.
Read on
Who this is for
The one who has everything — and keeps getting in their own way
You run a business, lead an organisation, or have built significant personal wealth. From the outside, you are the definition of success. But privately — behind the results, the reputation, the composed exterior — there's a version of you that keeps hitting a wall.
Things get good, and then something happens. You explode at the wrong moment. You create conflict that didn't need to exist. You withdraw from the people who matter. You walk away from something — or someone — that actually counted. And the worst part? You can see yourself doing it. You just can't seem to stop.
What anger is really doing
"At this level, anger rarely looks like rage. It's more subtle — and far more costly."
It's the dismissiveness in a boardroom that costs you a key relationship. The irritability at home that slowly erodes the people closest to you. The impatience that masks vulnerability. The arrogance that appears right when you're about to be truly seen.
It's all the same thing: a protection mechanism built decades ago to keep you safe when things felt like too much. The problem is, it's still running. And at your level of success, the cost of that pattern is no longer small.
The upper limit
You've out-earned your original programming. Now it's time to update it.
Each of us has an internal set point — a thermostat calibrated in childhood for how much success, love, joy, and visibility feels safe to hold. When life exceeds that point, something in us unconsciously pulls it back down to familiar ground.
For high achievers, this is particularly brutal. The external results keep climbing. But the internal set point hasn't moved. So the sabotage gets more sophisticated. The anger gets more controlled — and more damaging. The self-destruction quieter, but costlier.
You've built an empire. It's time to stop letting a version of you from thirty years ago run it.
What the pattern looks like at your level
01
In business
Alienating key people right before a breakthrough. Picking fights with partners or board members. Undervaluing what you've spent years building.
02
In relationships
Pushing away the people who get closest. Emotional unavailability dressed as focus. Creating distance precisely when intimacy becomes possible.
03
In decision-making
Reactive choices made from frustration rather than clarity. The kind that cost you financially, reputationally, personally — and that you knew were wrong the moment you made them.
04
In visibility
Pulling back right as recognition arrives. Deflecting, downplaying, quietly dismantling what you've earned — because somewhere, being seen still doesn't feel entirely safe.
Why strategy hasn't solved it
The work most coaches won't do with you
You've invested in business coaches, mentors, masterminds. You understand strategy. You understand performance. What you haven't had yet is someone who goes to the actual root — the inner child who learned that being powerful wasn't safe, the teenage version of you who decided to stay in control by never really letting anyone in.
This isn't mindset work. It's not habit-stacking. It's going back to where the ceiling was built — and dismantling it at the source. Reparenting the parts of you that are still operating from survival mode, and replacing the stories that have been running on autopilot since long before you had anything to protect.
That's work most coaches won't do with you, because most coaches don't know how.
"The ceiling isn't made of glass. It's made of old beliefs. And beliefs, unlike glass, can be changed."
The options to work together
Private, high-impact containers built for absolute transformation.
The Deep Integration
For leaders seeking full architectural restructuring of their internal programming across a complete calendar year.
£24,000
12 Months — Private & One-to-One
- Direct 1:1 access to Chelsea — no team, no assistants, no hand-offs
- Ongoing inner child and teen reparenting at the core of your growth
- Dismantling high-level protective narrative structures on autopilot
- Deep emotional intelligence integration through ongoing real-world triggers
- Complete, uncompromised discretion for high-profile timelines
The Subconscious Intensive
The core transformation. A deep dive beneath the surface patterns to rewrite your baseline programming in an accelerated time frame.
£4,000
6-8 Weeks — Intensive Private Container
- Weekly private 1:1 sessions (90 minutes each) for rigorous, focused focus
- Direct access to the subconscious work that drives real behavioral shifts
- Dismantling the primary foundational ceiling holding back your current expansion
- Targeted reparenting specifically around your immediate behavioral blocks
- High-impact breakthrough container designed for execution and safety
"Places are strictly limited by capacity. This is for individuals who recognize the internal pattern and are ready to address it at the root."
Honesty matters here
This is not for you if
You want someone to validate your existing narrative. You're looking for business strategy or accountability coaching. You believe the problem is always outside of you. You're not prepared to look at yourself honestly — or you want a quick fix with a tidy timeline.
There is no judgement in that. But this work requires a specific kind of readiness — and it will be obvious in a first conversation whether it's there. The investment is significant. The commitment it asks of you is greater still.
One conversation. You'll know if it's right.
Ready to stop hitting the same wall?
Applications are by conversation only. If you recognise yourself in this page, that recognition is worth listening to.
Apply to work with Chelsea chelseabanham.co.uk
I am here to call out your BS, break the cycle of people pleasing and self-sabotage, and support you to release the limiting beliefs that have been keeping you stuck so you can finally step into your power and live from it.
- why choose Chelsea
Compassionate care, lasting clarity.
Certified Expert
With over 30 years of experience and qualifications in Master NLP, Hypnotherapy, Timeline Therapy™, and COS-P ®, Chelsea brings deep expertise in attachment and emotional healing. Parenting course on safe and secure attachment with children and parents. Healing and parenting by being aware
Personal Approach
No surface fixes. Chelsea works directly with the subconscious and nervous system to uncover the real cause behind patterns, triggers, and relationship struggles.
Proven Methods
Using powerful, evidence-based tools, Chelsea helps you release emotional blocks, heal old wounds, and create lasting change quickly, deeply, and safely.
- services
Personalized services Designed to Support Your Growth
Discovery Sessions
DESIGN YOUR MINDSET
60 minute session exploring and creating personalized breakthrough to heal the past to step into YOU, and then enter into a tailor made 6 week, 6 month, or 12 month program
£100
Hypnotherapy
CREATING CONSCIOUS CHOICES
Working with the subconscious in your natural brainwave state. Lets access your blueprint and overcome phobias, better handle stress, build confidence and more.
60 minutes £275
90 minutes £350
Min 3 sessions for £350
Soul Therapy QHHT®
THE BEGINING OF ANYTHING YOU WANT
Quantum healing Hypnosis Technique is a power tool to access the higher self through past life regression
Sessions vary as each one is very individual
Breakthrough Program
RAPID TRANSFORMATION PROGRAM
Break through the pain of past relationships to self power, self worth and confidence.
Breakthrough program – upon application only please book a clarity call to discuss further.
Learn to Love Yourself
BODY CONFIDENCE EMPOWER SHINE
6 week program to find your femine, love your skin your in, break through the barriers that have held you back and claim yourself back.
One-on-One or Small Groups
Circle of Security Parenting
Circle of Security Parenting™
Helps you understand what your child is really asking from you — even through challenging behaviour.
This 10-week program is based on decades of attachment research and is designed to strengthen the bond between you and your child, while helping you feel more confident and supported as a parent.
Learn how to read your child’s emotional needs, support healthy emotional regulation, and build lasting self-esteem through connection and security.
Available as a 1:1 program or in a small intimate group setting.
Circle of Security Parenting™ is offered upon application only — please book a clarity call to discuss further.
- MY process
Thoughtful Approach to Support Your Growth
Connect
This is where everything begins.We start by creating a space where you feel seen, heard, and understood without pressure or judgment.Through open conversation and genuine connection, we explore what’s been happening beneath the surface and what you truly want to change.There’s no need to have all the answers.This is where trust is built.
And where your journey toward lasting change starts to unfold.
Personalize
This is where it becomes about you.Once we’ve connected, everything is tailored to your patterns, your nervous system, your history, and how you move through life and relationships.No generic process. No fixed formula.I use what fits you subconscious work, emotional regulation, attachment healing, or belief shifting based on what will create the deepest change.This is where the work becomes personal.
And everything starts to shift in a way that finally fits you.
Grow
This is where change becomes real.As we work together, you start to shift from the inside out old patterns lose their grip, emotional triggers soften, and new ways of thinking, feeling, and responding begin to take root.You feel more grounded in yourself, clearer in your relationships, and more in control of your inner world.This is where you expand beyond survival.
And start becoming who you were always meant to be.
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Chelsea offers deep 1:1 transformational work including counselling, life coaching, emotional wellness, relationship support, hypnotherapy, NLP, Timeline Therapy™, and Circle of Security®.
Her work focuses on shifting subconscious patterns, healing emotional wounds, and creating real change from the inside out — available online worldwide.
Yes sessions are completely confidential.
Everything you share is held in a safe, private space and is never discussed outside of your sessions, except where required by law (for example, risk of serious harm).
Yes sessions are available online worldwide.
You’ll receive the same depth of 1:1 support as in-person work, from the comfort and privacy of your own space.
Each session is typically 90 minutes.
This allows enough time to go beyond surface-level conversation and work deeply with subconscious patterns, emotions, and root causes without rushing the process.
You can book an appointment by booking a free initial call first.
On that call, we explore what’s going on for you, what support you need, and whether we’re a good fit to work together. If it feels right, you’ll be guided into the most suitable program or session.
Booking is done online through the enquiry or booking link provided on the website.
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Begin Your Journey Toward Calm and Clarity
This is your space
to slow down, reconnect,
and begin shifting what’s been
weighing you down. When you’re
ready, reach out and take the first
step toward real change.